Sexual Intelligence

What We Really Want from Sex--and How to Get It

Author: Marty Klein

Publisher: Harper Collins

ISBN: 0062098586

Category: Health & Fitness

Page: 256

View: 6267

This is not your standard sex book. Sex therapist, sociologist, and Psychology Today contributor Dr. Marty Klein goes beyond the sex manuals to reveal how our mindsets during sex are more important than any tricks or techniques—and that the way to a healthier, more exciting, more fulfilling sex life lies in first developing our sexual intelligence. This book is the antidote to the many gimmick-oriented sex guides and manuals; Dr. Klein shows us how to reorient how we think about sex in order to experience a truly different way of being sexual. “Marty Klein is the Steve Jobs of sex advice. . . . Sexual Intelligence is a work of enormous wisdom and expansiveness, and will inspire readers, regardless of age, to realize their full sexual potential.” —Ian Kerner, best-selling author of She Comes First

Sexual Intelligence

What We Really Want from Sex--and How to Get It

Author: Marty Klein

Publisher: HarperOne

ISBN: 9780062026064

Category: Self-Help

Page: 256

View: 8007

Enjoyable sex: it’s not about technique or a perfect body or being hopelessly, passionately in love. It’s about Sexual Intelligence. In his three decades of working with couples and individuals as a sex therapist and marriage counselor, Dr. Marty Klein has continually seen that although most people say what they want from sex is pleasure and closeness, that’s not what they focus on during sex. Instead, we’re preoccupied with how we look, what our partner is thinking, how we’re performing, and whether we’re “normal.” We do more thinking, worrying, and judging than experiencing. Sex like that can’t thrill us, can’t create intimacy, and can’t, well, feel sexy. In Sexual Intelligence, Klein shows how to stop observing ourselves during sex, ending our obsession with sexual performance and sexual normality. “I don’t help people ‘function’ better during sex,” he says. “I teach people how to relax and enjoy sex with the body they have, the partner they have, in the situation they have.” Now that’s something we all want: fulfilling, exciting sex at every stage of our lives. In Sexual Intelligence, Klein challenges our understanding of sex, love, intimacy, romance, and satisfaction. After all, sex isn’t just an activity. Change the way you think about sex, and you can change your sex life—forever.

Sexual Intelligence

Boost Your Sex IQ and Get Exactly What You Want in Bed

Author: Sheree Conrad,Michael Milburn

Publisher: Three Rivers Press

ISBN: 9780609807217

Category: Psychology

Page: 352

View: 9143

Presents the groundbreaking Sexual Intelligence Test that checks participants' knowledge and understanding of human sexuality, predicts readers' satisfaction with their sexual lives, and identifies areas that readers can focus on to achieve greater sexual fulfillment. Reprint. 10,000 first printing.

Sexual Intelligence

Author: Kim Cattrall

Publisher: Carlton Publishing Group

ISBN: 9781847321114

Category: Sex instruction

Page: 144

View: 6940

Sexual Intelligence explores the possibilities drawing on many authoritative sources as well as the insights of ordinary people as she explores the answers to questions such as: Are big penises really better? Why do we kiss? What is the only sexual organ whose sole purpose is to give pleasure?

Sex and the Intelligence of the Heart

Nature, Intimacy, and Sexual Energy

Author: Julie McIntyre

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

ISBN: 1594776989

Category: Body, Mind & Spirit

Page: 352

View: 3234

Explores how Nature underlies sexuality and intimacy • Examines how to regain intimacy in our relationships in a way that embraces our hidden wild nature and restores the sacred to our lives • Provides sacred sex and intimacy-building practices for partners and exercises to reconnect with the intuitive intelligence of the heart, remove our emotional armor, and cultivate a deeper relationship with the Earth • Shows how by healing our relationship with Nature and our sexuality, we move toward healing the whole planet Nature is having sex all the time--that’s one of the reasons we feel so alive when we are immersed in it. Sexuality is essential to the sensation of Nature in your own body, of connecting to the piece of Earth closest to you--your own flesh and bones. Many a couple has been overcome by passion while walking in the woods or on the beach; many a soul has found solace or epiphany in Nature. Living in accordance with Nature depends on you being your true, whole self--a sexual, sensual, erotic, fully alive human being. Exploring the territory of intimacy, sacred sex, and emotional healing as a journey to wholeness, Julie McIntyre examines the sacred relationship between sexuality and the Earth and reveals how to create deep, lasting intimacy with your lover by recapturing the wild, spontaneous, natural sexuality that is your birthright. Detailing the process of moving from your head to the secret garden of your heart, she provides exercises to heal your psyche of old emotional trauma, reconnect with the intuitive intelligence of the heart, and cultivate a deeper relationship with the Earth in order to trust yourself and become vulnerable and open with your lover and thus truly intimate. She shows how there is a direct relationship between our beliefs and values about sex and intimacy and our beliefs and values about the environment and the Earth. She reveals how, by healing our separation from Nature and our sexuality, we can bring the sacred back into our lives, shape our own ecstatic sexual experiences, and move toward healing the whole planet.

Sex IQ Tests for Increasing Sexual Intelligence and Becoming a Sex Expert

Author: Nicholas Nassor

Publisher: Lulu.com

ISBN: 1435700341

Category: Self-Help

Page: 128

View: 6339

This book contains ten 50-question Sex IQ tests, for a total of 500 questions on sex topics including sexuality, intercourse, tantric sex, orgasms, ejaculation, G-spot, oral sex, masturbation, erotica, male reproductive system, female reproductive system, fertility, pregnancy, condoms, birth control, STDs, sexual behavior, sexual orientation, paraphilia, and sex and aging. The author developed a method to measure Sex IQ. Sex IQ is measured by multiplying the percent correct on a 50-question Sex IQ test by 200. A score of 50%, or 25 out of 50 questions correct, is a Sex IQ score of 100, which is considered an average score on a Sex IQ test. A score of 70%, or 35 out of 50 questions correct, is a Sex IQ score of 140, which is considered to be a score at the genius level on a Sex IQ test.

Increasing Sexual Intelligence and Becoming a Sex Expert

Author: Nicholas Nassor

Publisher: Lulu.com

ISBN: 1435702182

Category: Self-Help

Page: 88

View: 1970

This book contains information on sex for everyone for increasing sexual intelligence and becoming a sex expert. Sex topics include sexuality, intercourse, tantric sex, orgasms, ejaculation, G-spot, oral sex, masturbation, erotica, male reproductive system, female reproductive system, fertility, pregnancy, condoms, birth control, STDs, sexual behavior, sexual orientation, paraphilia, and sex and aging. This book is a study guide that will help people achieve a score on a sex IQ test at the genius level.

Mating Intelligence Unleashed

The Role of the Mind in Sex, Dating, and Love

Author: Glenn Geher, PhD,Scott Barry Kaufman, PhD

Publisher: Oxford University Press

ISBN: 0195396855

Category: Psychology

Page: 298

View: 6139

Until recently, evolutionary psychologists have considered human mating behavior to be universal and similar to other animals, painting a picture of human mating as visceral, animalistic, and instinctual. But that's not the whole story. In courtship and display, sexual competition and rivalry, we are guided by Mating Intelligence, or the range of psychological abilities designed for sexual reproduction. In this book, psychologists Glenn Geher and Scott Barry Kaufman take a fascinating tour of the intersection of r sing and intelligence by drawing on cutting-edge research on evolutionary psychology, intelligence, creativity, personality, social psychology, developmental psychology, neuroscience, epigenetics, and more. This book will change the way you think about sex, dating, love, and the human mind.

Mating Intelligence

Sex, Relationships, and the Mind's Reproductive System

Author: Glenn Geher,Geoffrey Miller

Publisher: Psychology Press

ISBN: 1136678867

Category: Psychology

Page: 480

View: 5746

Human intelligence is sexually attractive, and strongly predicts the success of sexual relationships, but the behavioral sciences have usually ignored the interface between intelligence and mating. This is the first serious scholarly effort to explore that interface, by examining both universal and individual differences in human mating intelligence. Contributors include some of the most prominent evolutionary psychologists and promising new researchers in human intelligence, social psychology, intimate relationships, and sexuality. David Buss’ foreword and the opening chapter explore what ‘mating intelligence’ means, and why it is central to human cognition and sexuality. The book’s six sections then examine (1) our mating mechanisms — universal emotional and cognitive adaptations for mating intelligently — that guide mate search, mate choice, and courtship; (2) how mating intelligence strategically guides our choice of mating tactics and partners given different relationship goals, personality traits, forms of deception, and the existence of children; (3) the genetic and psychiatric causes of individual differences in mating intelligence; (4) how we use mental fitness indicators — forms of human intelligence such as creativity, humor, and emotional intelligence — to attract and retain sexual partners; (5) the ecological and social contexts of mating intelligence; (6) integrative models of mating intelligence that can guide future research. Mating Intelligence is intended for researchers, advanced students, and courses in human sexuality, intimate relationships, intelligence research, behavior genetics, and evolutionary, personality, social, and clinical psychology.

His Porn, Her Pain: Confronting America's PornPanic with Honest Talk about Sex

Author: Marty Klein Ph.D.

Publisher: ABC-CLIO

ISBN: 1440842876

Category: Architecture

Page: 208

View: 3469

Written by Dr. Marty Klein, a Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with more than three decades' experience, this fascinating book contests the common belief that pornography is unilaterally harmful to individuals and our society, addresses common concerns and debunks widely believed myths, and explains how to heal America's obsession with porn by engaging in honest talk about sex. • Provides the only book to discuss and resolve conflicts about pornography without demonizing porn or porn users • Confronts a common source of conflict in marriage and anxiety in parenting—and presents innovative, practical ways to resolve these problems using down-to-earth language • Shows why there's no such thing as "porn addiction," explains why it really matters what we call it, exposes the billion-dollar industry behind this failed concept, and offers real insight and hope for people concerned about their involvement with pornography • Shows how new technologies are always adapted for sexual purposes—making the Internet's application to pornography a technology issue as much as a sexual issue • Identifies—and corrects—the most common myths and junk science about pornography • Describes the politics through which progressive feminists and the Religious Right have wound up in bed together opposing pornography—by re-branding porn from an immorality problem to a public health crisis • Explains how America's lack of real sex education and frank talk from adults leaves young people looking at porn for sex information—and what they're actually learning from it • Explains how America's lack of real sex education and frank talk from adults leaves young people looking at porn for sex information—and what they're actually learning from it • Relieves parental anxiety with easy-to-follow advice on talking with kids about porn, including conversations about youth "sexting" • Appeals to general readers: educators, psychologists, clergy, and social workers; and policymakers, scholars, students, and researchers in psychology, law, public policy, communications, and media studies

Sexual Intelligence

The Groundbreaking Study that Shows You how to Boost Your "sex IQ" and Gain Greater Sexual Satisfaction

Author: Sheree D. Conrad,Michael A. Milburn

Publisher: Crown Pub

ISBN: 9780609606407

Category: Psychology

Page: 336

View: 9112

Presents the Sexual Intelligence Test that checks one's knowledge and understanding of human sexuality, predicts readers' satisfaction with their sexual lives, and identifies areas to focus on to achieve greater sexual fulfillment.

Erotic Intelligence

Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While in Recovery from Sex Addiction

Author: Alexandra Katehakis

Publisher: Health Communications, Inc.

ISBN: 0757314376

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 264

View: 5406

A compassionate guide to enjoying healthy sex after recovery from sex addiction.

Woman on Fire

9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power, and Sexual Intelligence

Author: Amy Jo Goddard

Publisher: Avery

ISBN: 9780399573576

Category:

Page: 320

View: 3123

Based on her sought-after sexuality workshops, the coauthor of Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men shows women how to master the nine elements of sexual empowerment to reclaim their desire and live the sexually fulfilling lives they want. In a culture that defines achievement in terms of the workplace and the family, and that judges women's worth by superficial standards of beauty, sexuality is often overlooked as an essential piece of women's power. Many women realize they want more sexually but don't know how to get it. Based on her sought-after workshops for women, Amy Jo Goddard lays out her holistic, inside-out approach to sexual empowerment--one that examines sexuality not only in terms of what happens in the bedroom but through a lens of personal power and the erotic energy that is at our core. In Woman on Fire, she reveals how to elevate our sexual intelligence by mastering the nine Elements of a Sexually Empowered Life. Including stories from the thousands of women she has worked with, Goddard shares how to get (back) in touch with desire, explore vulnerability, and push the boundaries of what we think is acceptable. We will have not just better sex, but also more pleasure throughout life, more power in our work, and more deeply connected relationships. And we will discover what Goddard always reminds the women she works with: The more whole we are as sexual beings, the more fulfilled we are as human beings. From the Hardcover edition.

The Psychologist's Book of Self-tests

25 Love, Sex, Intelligence, Career, and Personality Tests Developed by Professionals to Reveal the Real You

Author: Louis H. Janda

Publisher: Penguin

ISBN: 9780399522116

Category: Psychology

Page: 230

View: 2387

Presents tests to uncover personality strengths and weaknesses and offers advice for life changes

America's War on Sex: The Continuing Attack on Law, Lust, and Liberty, 2nd Edition

The Continuing Attack on Law, Lust, and Liberty

Author: Marty Klein Ph.D.

Publisher: ABC-CLIO

ISBN: 1440801290

Category: Psychology

Page: 226

View: 9487

This book exposes how a coalition of political, religious, and civic leaders are using the issue of sex to frighten, misinform, and bully Americans—paving the way for dramatic new public policies that are already restricting everyone's rights.

Sexual Intelligence

Politics, Culture, the Media and Sex

Author: Marty Klein

Publisher: N.A

ISBN: N.A

Category: Sex in mass media

Page: 182

View: 9442

Come as You Are

The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Author: Emily Nagoski

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

ISBN: 1476762112

Category: Health & Fitness

Page: 416

View: 9373

***A NEW YORK TIMES BESTELLER*** An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research and brain science—that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy. Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a “pink pill” for women to function like Viagra does for men. So where is it? Well, for reasons this book makes crystal clear, that pill will never be the answer—but as a result of the research that’s gone into it, scientists in the last few years have learned more about how women’s sexuality works than we ever thought possible, and Come as You Are explains it all. The first lesson in this essential, transformative book by Dr. Emily Nagoski is that every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world. So we never need to judge ourselves based on others’ experiences. Because women vary, and that’s normal. Second lesson: sex happens in a context. And all the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a woman’s arousal, desire, and orgasm. Cutting-edge research across multiple disciplines tells us that the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life, is not what you do in bed or how you do it, but how you feel about it. Which means that stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it. Once you understand these factors, and how to influence them, you can create for yourself better sex and more profound pleasure than you ever thought possible. And Emily Nagoski can prove it.

Our Sexuality

Author: Robert L. Crooks,Karla Baur

Publisher: Cengage Learning

ISBN: 1305887425

Category: Education

Page: 50

View: 6873

This is the most respected and authoritative college textbook available on human sexuality. Written in a direct, non-judgmental manner, the thirteenth edition of OUR SEXUALITY has been thoroughly and carefully updated to reflect the most current research findings and psychosocial developments. It is the first college text to deliver cutting-edge and in-depth emphasis on the impact of politics on sexuality. Crooks and Baur keep students interested with the most exciting, emerging research and coverage, and focus on strengthening their self-awareness and sexual intelligence. Important Notice: Media content referenced within the product description or the product text may not be available in the ebook version.

Multicultural Intelligence

Eight Make-or-break Rules for Marketing to Race, Ethnicity, and Sexual Orientation

Author: David R. Morse

Publisher: Paramount Market Pub

ISBN: 9780980174564

Category: Business & Economics

Page: 244

View: 5334

Critics of this new book might argue the election of President Obama is proof that racial, ethnic, gender and sexual preference barriers have been torn down, and marketing to these attributes isn't all that important anymore.This book takes the position that instead of getting pushed to the background, multicultural segmentation needs to become more sophisticated, and take its rightful place--front and center.With decades of experience in multicultural marketing, author David Morse reviews the history of marketing to black, Hispanic, Asian, and LGBT (mostly lesbian and gay) consumers. He explains how including appropriate cultural cues in advertising can build brand loyalty that will pay huge dividends. He also cautions that missing the mark with advertising that excludes or is culturally offensive can be a costly mistake.Replete with scores of examples of campaigns that have been extremely effective, as well as those that have sparked outrage and boycotts, this book provides EIGHT basic rules that should guide you through the process of marketing as diversity becomes mainstream. Recommended, for all levels of management and any student of marketing or advertising.